you would like to know, don't wait for her to make the first move. Get close to her and begin a conversation. Let her know in a non­aggressive (无攻击性的) way that you are interested in being friends with her.

　　Reach out to those who are lonely. When you see someone at school sitting alone, go over and talk to her. And don't let popularity decide whom you reach out to. You'll often be surprised at the beautiful qualities behind a shy appearance.

　　Ask questions. Start your first conversation by asking this possible friend what she likes to do or asking about her family. Be sure to ask questions that cannot be replied with "yes" or "no". For example, don't ask "Do you have a dog？" Instead, say "So, tell me about your pets." Avoiding asking "yes" or "no" questions makes your possible friend not end your communication with a one­word answer.

　　【语篇解读】　本文是一篇说明文，主要讲述了朋友的重要性以及如何结交朋友。

　　4．Why does the author begin the text with Lisa's worry?

　　A．To set a sad tone.

　　B．To share Lisa's pain.

　　C．To introduce the topic.

　　D．To teach readers a lesson.

　　答案与解析：C　写作意图题。根据文章内容可知，作者用Lisa缺少朋友的忧虑开篇是为了引出本文的话题：友谊。

　　5．What can be a risk caused by reaching out to others according to the passage?

　　A．Being refused by others.

　　B．Putting ourselves in danger.

　　C．Being treated in a rude way.

　　D．Losing interest in communicating.

　　答案与解析：A　细节理解题。根据第三段的"Because we are often afraid of rejection, many of us are unwilling to reach out to others."可知，主动出击的风险是可能被他人拒绝。

　　6．What can we know from Paragraph 5?

　　A．Shy people are hard to talk to.

　　B．Popular people are often easy­going.

　　C．Just waiting for chances will waste our time.

D．A proper manner is important in making friends.